Use summer wisely, but don't overload it

Summer is fast approaching, and now is the time to enroll students in summer camps and enrichment programs. Last year, I wanted to give my children an enjoyable summer, so I signed them up for a smorgasbord of camps and other activities. Halfway through the summer, my children were burned out. I am considering cutting back this year on some of their activities, but I don’t want to leave anything out. Sports camps give them exercise, while musical lessons expose them to the arts. I would also like for them to be in a reading group at the library, and our church has several summer activities designed for kids. With so many great activities, how do I know which programs are best for my kids?Read more...

Get child to understand, "Ownership" will follow

My daughter is a good student, but struggles with finals every semester. Last year several of her semester grades fell by a full letter because of poor exam performance. I recently read your column about the difference between learning and studying, and it really rang true for me. It seems as if our schools often focus on studying, instead of truly learning the material at hand. Unfortunately, I feel my daughter is probably merely studying for tests and not truly learning the subject matter. There are only a few weeks left before final exams, but is there anything my daughter can do to make the best use of the remaining time?Read more...

Keep reading on par with TV & Internet

My fifth grade son hates to read. It is that simple. This is extremely frustrating because he has a great memory and loves to learn by watching TV. He doesn’t miss a program about animals, and he knows more about history than me. On top of that, he enjoys telling people about all of the fascinating things he has seen on television. I encourage his learning however I can, but I know reading is really important to his education and future. What can I do?
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Advanced math success builds off matery of basics

My fifth grade daughter has always been an average to above average student, but recently I noticed that she is losing points for careless errors in math. She works through the entire problem only to get the wrong answer because of a multiplication mistake. While her teacher is giving her credit on her homework, her test grades are really dropping. How can I help my daughter stay focused on the details? Read more...

Unparalyze the writing mind

My daughter is having a terrible time writing papers in her ninth grade class. The teacher gives clear instructions and provides a schedule detailing when each step is due. The process is broken down into manageable parts – the outline, note cards, first draft, second draft, and bibliography – but in spite of this, my daughter says she doesn’t know how to begin.

At a young age, my daughter loved writing her own prose and poetry and reading her work to others. Now she is paralyzed. Out of desperation, I completely wrote one paper for her. She received a 66 on that assignment, and since then, she has lost all confidence in me. I admit that I am insulted – as a lawyer I write all the time for my job. Now we are both angry. What should I do?
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