Disability could become long term success

I am a patent agent and noticed early on that my creative clients tended to fit a profile: ADD, dyslexia, tending to be ambidextrous or left-handed, and sleep disordered. So, I studied up on these labels to find a correlation and realized that I was the poster child for all of the above...Read more...

Wait and watch before diagnosing a disorder

Our daughter is 5-years-old, and we are older parents who waited to have a child until we were ready to devote ourselves completely to her. She is in kindergarten, and the teacher says that at times she does not pay attention to directions or like to play with the other children. She also sometimes has trouble with verbal communication. We notice some of these things at home, but believe much of it is because she is an only child. We think everything is ok, but both of us have histories of autism in our families. We discussed these issues with our pediatrician, and the doctor feels we are being obsessive. What do you think? Read more...

Don't rely on outdated intelligence tests

My first-grade son has difficulty finishing school assignments in the required time. He seems to know the answers, but just doesn’t finish in the same time as other children. His teacher allows him to bring some work home to finish, but his test grades are low because he isn’t able to get through them. Because his semester grades were low, his teacher suggested we have him tested – now my husband and I are in shock from the results. Our son was given the Weschler (Intelligence Scales for Children, or WISC) test and diagnosed with an extremely low IQ – we were told he was a “slow learner.” But this is not the child we know. Our son has always been able to figure out things that amaze us – he does things with his toys that are creative and extraordinary. What do we do? Read more...

A closer look at hyperactivity, attention problems

My 6-year-old son is medicated for Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD). While this helps somewhat at school, the battle begins once he gets home. His teacher says homework should take 15 -30 minutes. Many nights, after two hours of struggling to finish the assignment, I write a note saying we did as much as we could. His teacher suggests that we hold him back for “maturity.” Making the situation worse, he often argues and fights with his younger brother. This past holiday, we bought a second video game system to stop the fights, but they find other reasons to harass one another. Adding to the problems, my 4-year-old’s pre-school suggests that I have him tested for ADHD. What is going on? I refuse to have my 4 year old taking pills. Please help – before I am the one that needs medication.Read more...