Dealing with excessive amounts of homework

In a previous column, you explained that a student’s failure to complete homework assignments was a sign of disrespect for the teacher. While I agree, I think there is another issue that should be addressed. Teachers need to assign the proper amount of homework without overloading students and placing a burden on their entire families. In the same way that students must respect their teachers, teachers must respect the students’ time outside of the classroom. My grandchild is in the fourth grade and often has several hours of homework, several nights a week. Shouldn’t the bulk of learning take place in the classroom? Don’t we want our children to have some time each day to spend with their families? Where should our schools and teachers draw the line on homework? Read more...

Instill child with understanding of contingencies

My son is very passionate about basketball, and I sometimes wonder if he places too much emphasis on the sport. I support him and believe he is learning many good life skills such as hard work and dedication. Unfortunately, these qualities aren’t transferring to other areas of his life. How can I get him to put forth the same effort in school? He would rather end up with poor grades than to miss a single practice.Read more...

Use summer wisely, but don't overload it

Summer is fast approaching, and now is the time to enroll students in summer camps and enrichment programs. Last year, I wanted to give my children an enjoyable summer, so I signed them up for a smorgasbord of camps and other activities. Halfway through the summer, my children were burned out. I am considering cutting back this year on some of their activities, but I don’t want to leave anything out. Sports camps give them exercise, while musical lessons expose them to the arts. I would also like for them to be in a reading group at the library, and our church has several summer activities designed for kids. With so many great activities, how do I know which programs are best for my kids?Read more...

Get child to understand, "Ownership" will follow

My daughter is a good student, but struggles with finals every semester. Last year several of her semester grades fell by a full letter because of poor exam performance. I recently read your column about the difference between learning and studying, and it really rang true for me. It seems as if our schools often focus on studying, instead of truly learning the material at hand. Unfortunately, I feel my daughter is probably merely studying for tests and not truly learning the subject matter. There are only a few weeks left before final exams, but is there anything my daughter can do to make the best use of the remaining time?Read more...