Let development guide school decisions

My daughter is almost three years old, and I am a stay-at-home mom. Lately, I have been getting advice from friends that my child should be in pre-school. My friends say that children who don’t go to pre-school will not be prepared for kindergarten. I don’t want my child to be at a disadvantage early in her life, but I also feel that the time we spend together is important for her development. Will not attending pre-school really hurt my daughter’s educational future?Read more...

Take summer assignments into your own hands

My son is in public school, and his fifth grade teacher did not assign any summer work. While my son is delighted, I have concerns that this may put him at a disadvantage. Many of our friends’ children are in private schools, and their children have in-depth assignments during the summer break. They read three to five books and then answer packets of questions. In math, some are required to practice problems on computer programs or on worksheets. I have dreams for my child just like parents who can afford private school. Will my son always have less than everyone else because I can’t afford more?Read more...

Pursuing misdiagnosis sends wrong message

I recently read your article answering a mother’s question about her daughter's request to get tested for ADHD prior to taking her ACT/SAT college exams. If diagnosed, the daughter could take the college entrance exams untimed and be prescribed ADHD medicine. In your column, you did not recommend getting diagnosed just for these exams. I think you missed the daughter’s main point. I think it was obvious the student wished to be diagnosed so she could take the tests untimed. Students specifically have a difficult time in the English and reading comprehension sections because of the amount of reading required to answer the questions. What is wrong with giving a child more time to finish the test?Read more...