A message to teach for Black History Month

Having recently celebrated Dr. Martin Luther King Day and soon Black History Month in February, I wish I could find one aspect of King’s life to teach my students for the entire month. We have many programs at school, but the students don’t have a chance to dig deeper to understand who this man really was and how he changed the world. Our world still needs more change, and one of these students could be the next leader to influence this change. How can I, one person, impact one classroom or one child?Read more...

How to teach responsibility to a first grader

With the beginning of the New Year, I want to introduce my first-grade daughter to responsibility by giving her a few chores around the house. I don’t want to give her more than she can handle, but I see so many people today who wait for others to clean up after them. I don’t want my daughter to be one of these people, and I want her to appreciate what she has been given. I thought it might be good to use a reward or punishment system. What would you suggest? Read more...

Helping a college student develop goals

My son graduated from high school with a 3.5 grade point average. School came easy to him, but I wondered how he would do in college. Well, I was right to worry. His first year was abysmal; he finished the year with a 2.0 GPA. Even worse, he does not have any idea what he wants to do when he graduates. He doesn’t enjoy any of his classes and has changed majors three times. Currently he is “undecided,” and when I talk to him about “after college,” he speaks vaguely about law school. With his current grades, this goal is hopeless. I am afraid he is digging himself a hole that he will not be able to climb out of when he decides what to do with his life.Read more...

How to help your child look beyond the basics

My fifth grade daughter is a straight “A” student even though she seems to be putting very little effort into her schoolwork. I am concerned that she is not challenged by her teachers or assignments. Her school has never mentioned a gifted program, but I think this could challenge her abilities and develop her full potential. Should I ask about a gifted program? Should I consider moving her to another school, one that would be more challenging for her? Read more...

Responsibility: your child's most important skill

My son will take his final exams when he returns to school after the Christmas break. Of course he has not picked up a book during the holidays because his teachers said they will give him a list of what the tests will cover when school starts back. This is madness – all this time has been wasted doing nothing. I know resting is necessary, but pure laziness is being taught by his teachers – not by me. My son is learning the lesson well; he left his books at school during the break. Our teachers are encouraging this laziness, yet society says it is my fault if my son fails. How did this happen to parents? When did teachers start bringing up our children, then giving them back to us crippled and putting the blame on parents? Read more...