Anaylize difficulties with new perspectives

After several years of home-schooling, we enrolled our eighth grade son in a private school this year. Before attending the new school, our son excelled in academics – he started algebra in sixth grade and reads voraciously. His verbal skills are extraordinarily developed, and he converses with adults in ways that astound them. His passions are physics and art and their combined influence on architecture and inventions throughout history. Unfortunately, this past year has been a disaster. He has experienced difficulty with tests, homework and deadlines, and as the year comes to a close, he could end up failing the grade. What should we do?Read more...

Don't let pressure lead to ADHD drug abuse

My daughter is a junior in high school who is preparing to take the ACT. She is an excellent student with a 3.75 grade point average, and she wants to apply for early admission to college. Given this background, you can imagine my surprise when she asked that I take her to the doctor to get a prescription for ADHD medication. I was blown away. She says many “smart” parents have their children tested and diagnosed with attention deficit disorders so the students have the advantage of prescription medicine and un-timed standardized tests. Is this really a trend in education?Read more...

Assessments should find gaps not hurdles

My son is a struggling learner who is experiencing difficulties in school. I am a teacher who has raised two other very bright children, but my youngest son has proved to be my greatest challenge. He is completely unmotivated to learn, rarely ever talking in school. To make the situation even more confounding, he is a "big talker" at home with a vocabulary beyond his years. My son says that the students don't talk about anything that interests him. His teachers say, and he confirms, that he would rather daydream. I think my son lacks motivation - how can I inspire him to learn? Read more...

Teach love first, all else will come

My 11-year old daughter gets straight As in school and receives high marks for conduct. She is a perfectionist and obsessed with making the best grades and being the best athlete. However, problems arise when I ask to see her homework. She tells me to leave her alone and gets so upset, even if I just want to check it. She screams at me and is very disrespectful. Do you think this is an issue, or am I being an over-concerned parent?Read more...

Keeping track of those grades before it's too late

Our family has just returned from a great Spring Break vacation, and we loved being together. But when school starts back, our relationships always become so strained. After the break, my son’s teachers finally updated his grades on the school’s website, and he had numerous zeros for homework. Unfortunately, I don’t find out about the zeros until he already has been labeled a “C” student. He simply does not see the purpose of the work. He says he will worry about it when he gets to the ninth grade – “when it counts.” How can I help to change his mind? Read more...